​Five Unattractive habits In Women that Scare Men Away


While you may be doing everything in your power to attract the opposite sex, it may surprise you to learn that some of your actions and behaviors can actually have the opposite effect.

In fact, you may not even realize that you’re acting in a wa that drives men away when all you’re really trying to do is draw them toward you. In order to take control of the situation and truly attract the right guys, avoid these 5 things and you’ll hopefully grab his attention rather than be left empty-handed.

Being a gossip


It might seem fun to share the latest rumours, scandals, and stories involving the lives of your friends, family, and co-workers with a guy, but it might surprise you to learn that being a gossip is a major turn off.

While your intentions may be to try to open the lines of communication with him and keep him in the loop, it’s important to recognize that giving him the lowdown on other’s sordid deeds actually makes you come across as having low self-esteem.

In fact, many people with a poor self-image rely on gossip as a way to make themselves feel better about their own lives, and they choose to talk about the latest failures and scandalous behaviours of others as a way to give themselves a boost.

If you’re looking to attract men, you should keep in mind that guys are drawn to women who are confident, value themselves, and don’t put others down as a way to lift themselves up.

Being excessively confident


While having high self-esteem is a quality that men find highly attractive in women, it’s important to understand that there’s a fine line between being confident and being conceited.

while you should definitely believe in yourself, be proud of your accomplishments, and be happy with what you have t offer, you should also keep in mind that showing off is a major turn off.

Specifically, research has shown that people who boast about themselves don’t even recognize the full extent of the negative response they receive from others, as discussed in Psychological Science.

Although you may assume that your self-proclaimed awesomeness is attracting men, having a huge ego, acting like a narcissist is actually a huge mistake. Alternatively, you should opt for humility and be secure enough in yourself that you don’t have to rely on arrogance to get a gent, as the right man won’t need you to constantly reinforce just how amazing you truly are — he’ll see it on his own.

Being needy


When it comes to attracting men, it’s important to recognize that men want to feel as though they’re needed. Specifically, men want to know that they add value to your life and that they’re not superfluous, expendable, or disposable.

However, many women mistakenly interpret a man’s desire to feel needed by becoming overly needy, jealous, and desperate to spend every waking moment with him — all of which are anything but appealing behaviours to guys. So if you’re someone who tends to become clingy and emotionally dependent on a man because you think it’ll bring him closer and inspire him to stick around, know that you’re actually just pushing him away.

Moreover, men want to know that they complement your life as opposed to being the center of your universe on which your entire happiness level and sense of self-worth depend. Fortunately, there are steps you can take right now to break your cycle of neediness when it comes to men, such as putting an end to negative self-talk, getting out of your comfort zone, and learning how to resolve issues on your own.

Wearing a ton of makeup


You may think that loading up on foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, and blush (to name a few) makes you look most attractive, but it may surprise you to learn that piling on the makeup is not appealing to guys.

In fact, a study in The Quarterly Journal of Experimental Psychology revealed that women tend to overestimate the amount of makeup that men find attractive, and as a result, many women end up applying way too much. In other words, you may choose to wear a lot of makeup because you think it draws men toward you, but in reality, it’s actually warding them off.

With this in mind, it’s time to face the fact (so to speak) that less is truly more when it comes to makeup’s role in attraction, and it’s in your best interest to opt for a natural look as opposed to caking it on for the guy you’re sweet on.

Playing hard to get


While it’s true that men are drawn to women who are outgoing and assertive individuals, it’s important to recognize that there’s a fine line between being independent and being unavailable.

You may think that playing hard to get and acting in a distant and disengaged way can help you attract a guy, but you’re making a mistake by not making time for him. In fact, playing games can make you seem highly immature and can give off the impression that you’re not yet ready, willing, and/or interested in getting to know him on a deeper and more meaningful level.

while you may assume that acting detached and aloof increases your allure, you’re actually coming across as uninterested, flaky, and just plain annoying. Playing hard to get is an easy way to strike out with a guy.

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How To Obtain A Firearm Permit/License Legally From The Nigeria Police Force

PROCESS OF OBTAINING A FIREARMS LICENSE

2. Go to the firearms license link on the police force website. CLICK HERE

3. Click on the link: New User? Click Here To Register to obtain an application ID which will be electronically generated and automatically displayed on your biodata form.

4. You will be redirected to the biodata form after you have successfully signed up.

5. Fill the Bio-Data form when logged-in, then enter your details with the instructions outlined on the page.

6. Upload a certified medical report obtained from any government hospital and attestation of good character from two referees which should be level 14 and above.

7. Print out the information submitted then take the Print-out to officer in charge of firearms in any Police Commands SCIID or FCIID for further directives.

8. Upon completion of this procedure, your application shall be processed through the criminal data base of the force and decisions including issuance of the certificate if application is successful shall be conveyed within five working days.

Your application will be fully processed after these steps. Applicants with challenges of processing their application online can go to the State Intelligence Bureau (SIB) within their State Police Command or the FHQ Abuja for support.

Here Are 16 Excuses Girls Use To Reject Men But Can Never Tell You

So she gave you the whole story of it’s not you it’s my kind of thing and you are left wondering what on earth do you mean?

It almost feels like you have been hit by a truck in the middle of nowhere by the most peculiar excuse that your crush made to not even look at you. This is because she did make it up and most likely its because she didn’t want to reject you for no good reason or didn’t want to hurt your feelings.

However, it can be very pathetic for someone you once liked to reject you in such a childish way, I mean you gave her your all and now she used any of the following odd excuses to let go of you. What a shame.

1. It’s not you it’s me.

2. I already have a boyfriend but you’ve never ever heard of him

3. I am a lesbian although all her previous exes were guys.

4. I am a workaholic, I won’t have time for you.

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5. You’re too nice and I don’t deserve you. Like WTF?

6. I’m very religious so we can’t date.

7. I have cramps so we cannot hangout, sorry.

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8. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend.

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9. Sorry I don’t like your height.

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10. Oh gosh I cannot date smokers.

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11. I don’t want us to ruin our friendship so lets stay friends.

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12. I don’t like pressure so let everything be at my own pace.

13. You’re just not a good kisser, too sloppy for me.

14. You don’t have money so what are we dating for?

15. You talk to too many girls and I don’t want to be part of a list.

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16. We are too much alike and opposites are best for each other.

4 Exercises to Flatten Your Stomach Fast

4 Exercises to Flatten Your Stomach Fast

Pilates is said to be one of the biggest discoveries in keeping the core strong, tummies trim and bodies strong. It is so effective that it burns up the abs, supports the back, defines the arms and tones the thighs and legs. It is not just a good exercise to flatten stomach but a full body workout as well. Pilates is easy to follow, you can do the sessions at home and the most important part is, after every workout, you will have that glow and will power to continue on click here to continue reading full this article.It is a cardinal rule: Diet AND exercise is the only way to go to get that lean body and strong powerhouse. Exercise without an eating lifestyle change and vice versa will be a waste of time. These two should go hand in hand. Pilates is an exercise to flatten stomach. You know that now. But, what are the foods you need to eat to have that glorious body and tight abs? Sufficient carbs like whole wheat bread, enough proteins like eggs and lean fish and chicken meat, abundant green and leafy veggies, at least 5 servings of fruits, non-fat or low-fat milk, nuts and ample vegetable oil click here to continue reading full this article.

Pilates is said to be one of the biggest discoveries in keeping the core strong, tummies trim and bodies strong. It is so effective that it burns up the abs, supports the back, defines the arms and tones the thighs and legs. It is not just a good exercise to flatten stomach but a full body workout as well. Pilates is easy to follow, you can do the sessions at home and the most important part is, after every workout, you will have that glow and will power to continue on click here to continue reading full this article.

It is a cardinal rule: Diet AND exercise is the only way to go to get that lean body and strong powerhouse. Exercise without an eating lifestyle change and vice versa will be  waste of time. These two should go hand in hand. Pilates is an exercise to flatten stomach. You know that now. But, what are the foods you need to eat to have that glorious body and tight abs? Sufficient carbs like whole wheat bread, enough proteins like eggs and lean fish and chicken meat, abundant green and leafy veggies, at least 5 servings of fruits, non-fat or low-fat milk, nuts and ample vegetable oil click here to continue reading full this article.

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10 Top Foreign Artists Who Have Worked With Wizkid 

Wizkid is known as One of Nigeria’s biggest R&B crossover acts and he is definitely living up to that.

Wizkid has had a lot of international collaborations and it has helped to boost his career over the years.

Stargist.com presents you with 10 top foreign artistes who have worked with Wizkid.

1. Drake

Drake and Wizkid have worked together on three tracks, ‘One Dance’, ‘Ojuelegba Remix’, ‘Come Closer’

2. Akon

In 2014, Wizkid and Akon worked together on a hit track, ‘For You’.

3. Ty Dollar Sign

Star Boy boss, Wizkid recorded another international collaboration with American R&B act, Ty Dolla Sign, ‘Cant Believe’ in 2015.

4. Vybz Kartel

In 2017, Wizkid and Vybz Kartel dropped a banger in the form of their single “Wine to the Top.” The song came after weeks of anticipation, following a tweet that Wizkid sent out hinting at the collaboration.

5. Chris Brown

He featured Chris Brown in one of his tracks,‘African Bad Gyal’

6. Tyga

In 2014, he hooked up with Tyga on ‘Show Me The Money Remix’.

7. Future

Wizkid will also be joining will be joining Future’s Hndrxx tour for four dates, including stops in New , New Jersey, Florida and Connecticut

8. Kranium

Jamaican dancehall act, Kranium collaborated with Ty Dolla Sign and our very own Starboy ‘Wizkid‘ on a song titled ”Can’t Believe It”.

9. Zara Larsson

Zara Larsson featured Wizkid in an electrifying song titled ‘Sundown’.

10. Justine Syke

Justine Skye featured  Wizkid in ‘You Don’t Know’..

DAVIDO VS WIZKID – 10 SOLID REASONS WHY DAVIDO IS BETTER THAN WIZKID (WITH PICTURES)

The ‘war’ between Davido and Wizkid would probably last till the end of their careers. The competition between both acts has divided the pop music base in Nigeria with half repping Omo Baba Olowo, and the other half holding it down for Wizzy.

1. DAVIDO OBVIOUSLY HAS MORE MONEY

When it comes to the money war, Davido is holds the bigger gun. Being the son of a multi-millionaire makes him a very rich individual based off his future inheritance. Before the release of his first album, he moved into a mansion. Wizkid rented a house in Lekki after considerable success after his first album was released. Davido’s money count is just too much for Wizzy to match. Let’s not forget that Davido is making good money off music.

2. DAVIDO CREATED A DANCE

Davido gave the world the Skelewu dance that caught on like fire. Wizkid hasn’t created a dance of his own. The closest he got was hopping the Azonto dance. O.B.O created a movement with Skelewu.

3. DAVIDO HAS MORE PRESENCE IN AFRICA

In the motherland, Davido has a firm grip. He was able to achieve this by touring the continent extensively within the last two years. While he was doing this, Wizkid preferred to solidify his fan base in England. Yes, Wizkid has been to a few African countries this year, but Davido has been there before him.

4. HAS BEEN HIS BOSS SINCE DAY ONE

For four years Wizkid was under the EME set-up controlled by Banky W. He got a bit of independence when he created Star Boy in 2013. Davido has been his own boss since day one. He created the HKN label in conjunction with his big brother. Davido has never had to answer to anyone.

5. LOYALTY

Davido still has the same guys he started with. His friends from his early days are still with him. He even signed his cousins B-Red and Sina Rambo to his label. Wizkid has changed buddies as his life has changed. Many of the people who hustled with him are no longer around. Some even have issues with him. Davido has put his guys on more than Wizkid.

Musically, there have been some comparison and competition between the two stars because they are the two young boys under 25 running the entire music scene in Africa, but Fans have made their choices and given the reasons for choosing Davido over Wizkid.

6. ARROGANCE – WIZKID

Wizkid, from what we know, he came from a middle class family but he acts like he’s been living the life of gold already. He’s been making dumb comments to his fans who made him. He once said “when broke people think they have a say” to a fan who inquired about his next album. These same fans made him and just like a typical African star. We’ve heard bad rumors about the kid star concerning his fans.

7. PLANLESS – WIZKID

Wizkid is just following the footsteps of D’Banj who rose to the sky and dropped like God kicked him back to earth. He is rushing for international fame just typical of most African musicians thinking that is the way to heaven. Truth is, you need to conquer your world first. Currently Davido is popular all over Africa, Kenya, Tanzania, Liberia, Sierra Leone, Ghana, Zimbabwe and his home country, Nigeria. He seems to have a plan, trying to conquer his continent before moving to the world. Wizkid is forgetting that the foreign world doesn’t have anything for him. All his crap lyrics “lelelele and yaaga” and things won’t make the cut. If I was him, I would learn a lot from D’Banj’s failure. Even Kanye West couldn’t help D’Banj, what more can a douchebag like Chris Brown and Justin Bieber do for you as an African artiste?

8. WIZKID – ACTS LIKE HE’S MADE IT

Davido is a son of a billionaire, if not, a millionaire and he’s been probably living a lavish life since childhood but he has defied that fact and trying his best to join his dad. Davido makes a whopping $50,000 per show and has made his own money, unlike Wizkid, he goes to instagram and twitter just to act like he’s a millionaire already when I’m perfectly sure he’s far from that. We are not surprised, poor people always want to be something they are not. No doubt, Wizkid has made it but even Mike Tyson who was once worth 300 million dollars plus is now broke how much more a musician from Africa who is not worth a million dollars SMH!

9. DAVIDO – MADE IT ON HIS OWN (VERSATILE)

Davido started it all off with his “HKN Gang” unlike Wizkid, he came through Banky W who made sure the world knows about Wizkid’s talents. Just like most of our African artistes, he felt cheated and decided to form his own StarBoi label and even planned to leave Banky W’s label. Greediness??? You tell us?

10. WIZKID IS JUST LUCKY, DAVIDO IS THE BUSINESS

If you listen to Wizkid’s songs very well, his songs lacks substance, it’s the same usual “one word chorus” like Ginger, The Matter, Caro but Davido spans through all the genres from Highlife, Dance, Afrobeats like Skelewu, Aye, Gobe, One Of A Time and more hits in his short time of being in the industry. Davido also take advantage of all artistes (both underground and made artistes in different countries) and work with them unlike Wizkid, even if you invite him, he would have to like your product first before he feature on it. Davido immediately shot another video to his hit song “Skelewu” after fans complained about it, if it was Wizkid, he would have insulted the fans. Davido has songs with Sarkodie, Shatta Wale, Diamond, Mafikizolo and counting. Not forgetting most of Wizkid’s hit songs were freestyles and unplanned.

Also Read >>>> Wizkid Vs Davido – 10 Reasons Why Wizkid Is Better Than Davido (With Pictures)

Wizkid Vs Davido, 10 Reasons Why Wizkid Is Better Than Davido 

This is an ever trending topic in Nigeria and it doesn’t seem to be coming to an end anytime soon as both Davido & Wizkid are considered “Kings in their lane”.

Davido and Wizkid are probably the Biggest music artistes below the Age of 25 that we have in the country now. Theconstant argument amidst fans about who is better has sparked a lot of controversies, Blogs, threads and forums.

It’s tough to decide which act is better or ahead. Don’t worry in a two part series, Pulse Music will highlight the factors that makes each artist better than the other. Today, we give you 10 reasons why Wizkid is better than his arch-rival Davido.

1. WIZKID HAS MORE HITS THAN DAVIDO

Davido and Wizkid are both extremely talented and gifted in the art of Music making. However, kudos must be given to Wizkid for writing his own songs, Davido is practically enjoying others people Shine and always in on song theft controversy or another ..we all know Wizkid’s Debut Album “Superstar” cannot be compared to Davido’s OBO album in terms of good music, sales, acceptance and awards.

This is not even up for dispute. Wizkid is perhaps Nigeria’s most prolific hitmaker. From his debut album, to the EME compilation album to his new projects, Wizkid has racked more hits that will last some artist’s entire career. Let’s not forget the songs he dropped in between albums such as ‘BABA NLA’ & So many more. Hit for hit, Wizkid is leading this race with a huge gap.

Till date, Nobody has accused Wizkid of stealing their songs, from Azonto to On top ur Matter, Bombay ,One Question, Baba Nla e.t.c ,everything is purely Wizkid’s hard working mind that writes and supplies us good and not stolen Music.

2. WIZKID HAS BETTER TASTE IN WOMEN

Right from the get go before he became a superstar, Wizkid has shown that his taste in women is high. Look at his babe in ‘Holla At Ur Boy’ video to his current on/and off bae. Add Tonto Dikeh, Victoria Kimani, Seyi Shay to his rumoured list of flings, and you see that he doesn’t do random babes. Even his baby mama is good looking. We can’t say this about Davido. The two times he has been caught with his pants down, its been with chicks who aren’t great in the looks department.

3. INTERNATIONAL ‘CONNECT’

Drake & Chris Brown is his buddies, One Dance & Shabba/African Bad Girl can testify to that. The collaboration with Drake made Wizkid the FIRST AFRICAN to make the Number 1 Spot on Billboard . Rihanna (reportedly) likes his music.

He shares the same management with Tinie Tempah. He has done songs with Akon, and Tyga & so many more. Sigh , I’ll stop there.

It’s pretty much obvious that he is a huge music export. He is known by foreign celebs, and he even parties with them. Davido doesn’t have the same international recognition Wizkid has. And oh, he’s taken a selfie with Justin Bieber.

Take a look at Wizkid’s Instagram and you can see that Wizzy takes dressing seriously. He doesn’t just rock brands, he knows how to co-ordinate them. Davido on the other hand just buys the expensive gear, but they don’t reflect a high taste in fashion and style. Wizkid can just wear a white T and a pair of blue jeans and still outshine a Davido dripping in Versace.

5. WIZKID WRITES HIS OWN SONGS. 

Wizkid is the brain and author behind all his songs. This is an added benefit for the star. Davido is known to buy songs off artists.

6. FREESTYLES

Wizkid is better at free styling and taking choruses more than Davido, Take it or Leave it

7. ATTITUDE

Most People accuse Wizkid of being Pompous. Yes he might be, but Davido is certainly more pompous than Wizzy. He labelled himself OBO ,sings abt his fathers wealth all the time, beat up a taxi driver,fought an immigration officer and went bananas when his name was not included in The Forbes top ten richest artistes in Nigeria. Yes wizkid is human,calling a fan broke may be harsh but we know some Nigerians can say silly things at times. How many Times ,Davido don throw money for Crowd before? Eh? And he like him fans Abi?? Smh ?

8. VOICE

No Stress about this one, we all know Wizkid has a better voice than Davido

9. FAN BASE & POPULARITY

Believe it or not Wizkid is the most internationally recognized artist in Nigeria and yeah his song with Drake & Kyla is presently on billboards hot 100, so what else , Wizkid has a total of 2.3million+ followers on twitter & Over 1.8million followers on Instagram, Davido on the other hand has a total of 1.8million followers on twitter and 1.4million followers on instagram. So yes! Wizkid is more popular that Davido.

10. WIZKID MADE IT ON HIS OWN (WASN’T BORN WITH A SILVER SPOON).

Funded and supported by Banky W while Davido relied on his fathers wealth to promote himself and his songs

Wizkid is better than Davido, Any Objections??

Also Read>>>>>10 Solid Reasons why Davido Is Better Than Wizkid With Pictures